In the past three months it seems Dagny has grown so much. I realize I have been hypocritical when it comes to Dagny and hitting milestones. I am always so excited when she hits a new milestone and then at the same time I get sad that she is growing up so fast. At this point she has lost everything baby about her and is officially a little girl. Bummer, but awesome. I give up.
I remember when Dagny sat on my lap for more then 30 seconds, and holding our hands as we walk. These are huge milestones when your child comes from an orphanage. Sensory issues and trust were the milestones that I was most excited about. Even though she was so young (11 months old ) when we met these were very real issues. She didn’t like her hands touched and she didn’t like to sit in our laps. None of these are issues any longer.
holding on
snuggling
There are times when I let my mind wonder to the time before and I feel guilty that she had to be without us for 11 months of her life, as if somehow it’s our fault. I don’t know if other adoptive parents feel the same way, but I do. I know it’s ridiculous.
Even back then Dagny seemed all together. I remember thinking that we needed to gain her trust, but she isn’t fighting us. It’s as if she was really getting that we loved her and would never let her down or at least try our very best not to. We were mommy and daddy and she would no longer be without those figures in her life. It’s so hard to explain, but I know we are one of the lucky ones. For this we are extremely grateful for.
So much has changed recently with her, it’s hard to even keep track. That is the only reason I am keeping this blog going. For my Dagny!
We went out on President’s Day weekend and bought Dagny a mattress (isn’t that when you’re suppose to go?) for her BIG girl bed. Seriously, when did mattresses get so expensive? I mean really.
Here is her new bed, new duvet, and everything else that comes with becoming a big girl.
The new bed
She really transitioned wonderfully. Sometime I catch her in bed “reading” (which by the way I don’t think she is that far away from) her new favorite book, Skippyjon Jones. The best part is we can now lay on the bed with her and read a bedtime story or two and having her fall asleep before we finish. Those are the best nights. It’s not always the case, sometimes she fights going to bed, especially if she has a nap during the day.
D in bed
Reading Skippyjon Jones
For about a few months now Dagny has been randomly asking me how to spell things. So far I can manage the words she’s asking, but I am grateful for my iPhone when the words get more challenging. Seriously though, she knows how to spell her name, dog, cat, hat, and a few more. She’s not even 3 1/2. She loves to watch WordWorlds on PBS. Actually, she found this show all by herself on my iPhone using the Netflix app. We don’t have her DVD in the car, only when we go on longer trips. But, sometimes when we are out and about, she asks for my iPhone and I admit I give it to her. On her own, in the back seat while I am driving, she navigates to a game that we downloaded for her or to Netflix and she picks out something to watch. I am sure she isn’t the only 3 year old that does this, but I am still super proud of her.
Now, that she is older and really can enjoy them, we have gone on a couple of play dates and have more already scheduled. She has made friends with one of the girls in her dance class and we were all invited to their house a couple of weekends ago. It was so much fun seeing Dagny out of her element and handling it so well. They played dress up and made jewelery to name a couple of things. The bonus is that we really like the little girls parents too and had just as much fun talking with them. Then last week Dagny and I met up with her best friend from her class at preschool at Jump Club. We had taken Dagny there once a few months ago and she didn’t like it all. I think she got intimated by all the bigger kids and not to mention the place was packed. This time the place was empty and the girls had the place all to themselves. Having her friend there helped her come out of her shell and for two hours they did not stop moving. By the end she looked like she just stepped out of a shower, she was all wet. That night she went to bed at 7:00 pm, by far the earliest she has ever gone down.
bounce, bounce, and more bounce
‘Tis the season for doctor visits. She had her annual eye doctor visit a couple of weeks ago. Her pediatric ophthalmologist moved to a different practice and this was our first visit with him since he moved. We just love him, where he goes we go. After her eyes were dilated we were called back in by her doctor. This was the highlight of the visit. He said “Dagny, Dagny, Dagny. When I look at the list of patients for the day and I see your name I know who you are.” Craig and I just looked at each other. He said he loves her name and loves how unique it is. I told him that is one of the reason we picked the name. I don’t want her to go to class and have the same name as five other girls. I want her to standout. He said he understood, when his daughter was in preschool she was Sara M, because there were five other girls named Sara. The fact that he sees tons of kids every year and he remembers our little girl proves my point. WOOT.
Here she is rocking her awesome paper glasses she got afterward.
cool kid
Next on our list was Dagny’s six month check-up with her dentist. Because her teeth are so close together, when her permanent ones come in most likely there wont be enough room for them. I see braces in the future and that’s OK. Otherwise all is great with her. We have a great regiment going on everyday with brushing and flossing.
getting ready
This week we signed up Dagny for gymnastics. It’s something I never thought I would do. It just doesn’t appeal to me. But, Dagny has been asking to go because her best friend goes. We decided to sign her up for the Spring session and let her experience it with her friend. This summer we are planning on signing her up for soccer. I can’t wait for that. She loves the idea of playing it. So, the activities have started. But, it’s all good.
Dagny brought this painting home that she did at preschool and I just absolutely love it. I love it so much I went out the next day and got a frame and framed it.
My little artist
Other then all of these activities its been all about hanging out with each other and having fun.
Here is the Johnson Duo playing in your local attic.
The Johnson Duo
Dagny found the boxes that I put a lot of her “first” items away in. She found her first Christmas dress and she decided to put it on. When I turned around this is what I found. I was quite surprised that it still fit, with the size being 12 months.
look at me
Then she found her first Halloween costume. Who am I to stand in the way of some good old dress up fun?
My little ladybug
Shoveling the driveway is a family act. We all chip in.
shoveling
But, we also know how to have a good old snowball fight.
family fun
It’s been an amazing few months, busy but fun!
Barbara